darah manis

harini, tiba2 aku tertanya2. ape tu sebenarnya "darah manis"? ada yang berpendapat, when you are expecting something big, you are usually less focused – thus more careless – thus more accident prone. ni la rasanya by far the most logic explanation. bkn la tiba2 darah yang hari2 tawar tiba2 jadi manis tiba2 mcm2 la menimpa kamu. sgtla tak logik.

tapi istilah darah manis ni dari apa yang aku cuba fahamkan,  bila dah berdarah manis, ramai yang tertarik pada si polan ni. mulalah awek2 tgk jejaka y berdarah manis ni ataupun vice versa. tapi, ada logik ke? mcm more to perasan sendiri je. yela, bila da rasa nk kawin, rasa mcm kita sedang wat preparation for something big. pastu bila kita dah contribute to this, it's normal for us to feel that we have done something significant, and maybe most of the people around us acknowledge this. thus, making us feel that all eyes are on us. 

ada jugak yang kata, bila dlm tempoh darah manis ni, kirenye mcm orang lain ada kecenderungan utk rapat dgn mereka yang dikatakan berdarah manis ni, sbb ada extra penarik time tu. mcm gula y menarik semut. ok, understandable. tapi mcmana pulak kalau orang berdarah manis yang menggedik2 merapatkan diri dgn org lain? totally no idea.

another point of view is, "darah manis" is a term used to warn these people not to do anything silly or risky and do things cautiously because your good luck can be very tempting to negative occurrences – like how mosquitoes prefer sweet blood. That’s why grandmas or the elders would warn bride-to-be against going to the beach or forest, do dangerous sports or do heavy tasks for fear of something bad happening before your big day.

persoalannya sekarang, betul ke "darah manis" btul2 ada? ataupun perasaan je?